8 Ways To Make Your Relationship Works

Hello hello Malaysia :)

So here I am to share with you something I found on MSN.com

Tips on making your relationship works. :D (applicable to married couples)

1. Put yourself first.

Maksudnya kat sini bukannya jadi selfish, tapi instead of kita bermati matian berusaha untuk minat hobi partner kita, why not kita sendiri develop minat kita? That way our partner would get to learn something from us.

2. Respect relationship privacy.

Apa-apa pun yang berlaku dalam relationship, please keep them just between both of you. Tak perlu post dalam facebook, blog whatsoever.

3. Avoid toxic friends.

According to research from Brown University, kalau kita ada kawan-kawan yang selalu bergaduh or worse, split up dengan partner, 33 % peluang kita akan ikut jejak langkah diorang. So better jarakkan diri sikit dari pasangan macam ni.

4. Unplug after work.

Pisahkan hal kerja dan hal relationship. That's basic.

5. Outsource houseworks.

Accept it; husbands do fewer houseworks than you. So kalau tension tengok rumah berkecah, pinggan mangkuk tak berbasuh, then you should spend a little to get outside's help.

6. Get a prenup.

Prenup ni lebih kurang macam perjanjian perkahwinan la. Well, dalam artikel MSN writer tu tulis in case kalau ada pasangan yang divorce, prenup ni offer backup. Sebab selalunya after divorce tak semua pasangan dapat hak masing-masing. Tapi personally pada saya, prenup ni lebih kurang macam protection untuk diri sendiri after marriage nanti. Prenup boleh consist lifestyle, berapa orang anak, berapa division gaji untuk rumah bla bla bla. Prenup setakat ni pada saya is still an opt. Tapi kalau readers nak cuba, boleh cuba. XD

7. Discuss your finance.

Couples selalunya split up sebab diorang tak setuju cara manage duit rumah. So better cari financial expert untuk dapatkan advice tentang financial management.

8. DO go to bad angrily.

Biasanya bila manusia tidur, otak akan refresh memories and combine it with new ideas to come up with a solution. Tapi janganlah hal kecik pun nak marah. Please be cool too.

Good luck with your marriage!